Performance Management Is a Dirty Word (But It Shouldn’t Be)

Let’s be honest—performance management has become a dirty word in many workplaces.

It’s often seen as HR admin. A form. A yearly ritual. Something that happens to people, not with them.

But that’s not what it’s meant to be.

At its best, performance management is just another name for good leadership—setting expectations, giving feedback, and helping people grow in real time. That’s it. No magic. No spreadsheet sorcery. Just conversations, clarity, and care.


When Performance Management Fails

I’ve seen performance plans that are little more than a numbers exercise. KPIs copied over from last year. No context. No relevance. No conversation.

Worse—some employees don’t get goals at all. I’ve been in that position. The year before I left one of my roles, my manager didn’t even bother to set goals with me. No feedback. No clarity. Nothing to work towards. And yes, it affected my engagement.

This isn’t just bad HR—it’s bad management. And it’s common.


Where It Goes Wrong

Too many managers still think performance management is an HR task. It’s not. HR can provide tools and guidance, but managers are the ones who work with people day to day. They know their teams. They see the effort. They’re responsible for the outcomes.

Good performance management isn’t about completing a form—it’s about building trust and clarity through consistent leadership.


So What Does Good Leadership Look Like?

Here are five simple ways managers can lead performance well:

1. Have Regular Check-ins

Don’t wait for formal review cycles. Monthly one-on-ones are enough. Keep them short, consistent and purposeful. Talk about priorities, progress, and any blockers.

2. Give Feedback Promptly

If you see great work, say something. If there’s an issue, don’t delay. Early feedback prevents small problems from becoming big ones—and shows that you’re paying attention.

3. Set Clear Expectations

Clarity is one of the most underrated tools in a manager’s toolkit. Be explicit about what good looks like. Discuss goals and behaviours. Ask your team to reflect back what they’ve understood.

4. Ask Questions, Don’t Just Tell

Great performance conversations are two-way. Ask:

  • What’s going well?
  • What’s getting in your way?
  • What support do you need?

This isn’t about judging performance—it’s about unlocking it.

5. Make It Safe to Talk

People won’t be honest with you if they don’t feel safe. Be consistent. Be human. Don’t wait until something goes wrong to have a conversation. Build trust long before it’s needed.


Make It Matter

Performance management doesn’t need a rebrand. It needs to be meaningful.

It’s not about forms or ratings. It’s about showing people that their work matters. That someone sees their effort. That there’s a path forward.

And that starts with managers showing up. Every month. Every conversation.

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